Monday, July 26, 2010

Yes. It is monday.. and I haven't posted for a couple days and basically only reason I am now is because I am procrastinating and have a hatred for having a long "to-do-list" that runs deeper than the depths of hell. Anyway :) I was actually very productive today. VERY. I was able to do three loads of laundry, vacuum the entire house, wipe every single furniture in my bedroom, and lastly fix my closet which hella seemed like forever!

So I really have only been working, watching movies with Geeno and the Kevinsan, lounging with them and doing things here and there. My sleep-wake schedule has become really bad though. Sometimes I can't even fall sleep out of shear exhaustion. *tear, I know

Well I've seen "Inception," which I think was certainly mind-bending. Some parts are simply too obscure to comprehend. It isn't a bad movie, but I could never sit through it again. Let's just say, it's probably a movie that needs to be seen more than once to understand the entire plot.

What else.? Oh, Ip Man and Open Grave last night with the two buds. Pretty decent I must say. What else what else.... Working a twelve hour shift Thursday and Friday nights. Freaken exhausting, it's been awhile since I last did a twelve. But sometimes your passion speaks for you and you forget about those "other things." ^^ So that was basically my entire week. Oh and of course the "heavy housekeeping" today O_o Then tomorrow, heading out with a hella lot to do. And finally, my big chunk of news. I got another job thing that happened today but I can't really say what it is because I don't wanna jinx it. lol. But I am SO pumped for at least even getting a response from them! *woow*

ANYWAY. This week has been good overall. It's always nice to be busy and stressed out and then go out to meet your friends and just have one helluvah good time ^_^ I don't know how well blogging is going to go for the next couple days. But I will try to check back when I can. So I must leave you now and probably should hit the hay. Au Revoir!

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Hello world.

A week of non-update. Sorry for the sudden MIA. Been busy with a whirlwind of.. crap. Haha I kid. My time has been mostly with work and the Kevinsan. I don't see much going on this week soo yeah with all being well I might go on a blogging frenzy ;) Ooh blogspot how I missed thee! Heading out in a bit, will update soon ^_^


Monday, July 19, 2010

Reach for the Stars

I'm never really into horoscopes, I'm skeptic about interpretations but I think I shall make today an exception and see what the stars has to say =] .. then maybe, make a regular feature out of it :) So I visited Em and Lo today and according to my weekly horoscope...


Leo (July 23rd-Aug. 22nd)
You’ve got it going on this week, so don’t waste it. And don’t ask us what “it” is — if we knew what “it” was, do you think we’d still be here peddling horoscopes? No, we’d bottle it and become millionaires and you’d have to pay $200 an hour to hear what we think about the stars. Until then, use your “it” wisely: Pick up the damn phone and make a date — or at least have really steamy phone sex.


......Err.. no words. Definitely. lol ^^

My horoscope today according to Glamour -

Get your work done early, especially your home chores. If you're involved with someone, or interested in someone -- platonically or romantically -- you shouldn't count on getting much done this afternoon. You're only able to hold out for so long before you start secretly planning how to 'accidentally' bump into them. When that happens, you're pleasantly surprised to learn that someone else had that in mind as well.

.. Okay. I think now I'm convinced.lol Did they have to say "platonically or romantically?" =)

Friday, July 16, 2010

Everyone has a Life story.

This video clip definitely doesn't speak my current mood. But..

This is FML-week.
This is don't-show-anyone-you're-slipping week.
This is dear-god-let-me-be-empty week.
This is happy-but-sad-week.
This is I'm-so-tired-of-arguing week.

This is
please
let
me
disappear
week.

fries and soda = comfort food

where life and emptiness become one.
where fading into the background is the only thing that matters.

So here's a vid I found that I think would be really nice to watch just to give us that push :)



Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Friends vs. Love

3am. O-em-gee. This is why I hate sleeping early.. I end up waking a few hours after! And I've an appointment at 7:30AM. FML.

Side story. I get along better with guys; they are so much more low-maintenance than women. Okay so I'm a girl and of course I don't have problems with other girls. Women are the most amazing beings but sometimes I find it hard to get along with them because, well like we all know, girls have attitude - bitchyness, the whole works (well some of them, not all). I'm just a laid-back kind of person even if I have this super girly-girl persona... but I get easily bored of talking about makeup and clothes which is probably numero uno on my girlfriends list, although I've almost always been labeled as the "Mean Girl" kind of type.

Given this case, I enjoy hanging with the lads as I love challenging and insigtful debates. So I'm curious. Does platonic love exist? Or are we all just being naive at some point and just like to ignore the obvious? Meh whatever the case, men are baffling when it comes to that L word (but then again I do not speak in general). It's just hard to tell what they really want.
jump in front and make it look like a parade. Pictures, Images and Photos
love Pictures, Images and Photos





"Life decisions, and smaller ones, too, involve risk, and it's up to you to choose how much risk is worth taking. There are a myriad of possibilities, but you need to make your own decision based on your priorities. It doesn't matter what decision you make, as long as you feel confident that you've thought it out and made one that feels right to you. Sometimes the outcome won't be what you planned, but that's the risk that forms an exciting, and sometimes challenging, aspect to our lives."

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Post-pregnancy secrets to a flatter stomach

Interesting post by Mizfit . I do a variety of the traditional sit-ups and crunches but having read this with lots of worthwhile info definitely beats the old way hands down.

So I'm saving this for a trackback when "that" time comes! lol.

Post-pregnancy secrets to a flatter stomach by Mizfit

Are crunches making you fat?
In my experience as a personal trainer, one of the most common requests from moms new and old are exercises to flatten the stomach back to pre-baby shape.
But after several years of sit ups and crunches–which come in addition to the abdominal trauma of the actual birthing process—what I usually find in the quest for a firmer mid-section is a set of conditions which prevent this from ever occurring. In order to understand what I mean, it is important to examine the subject. The typical Mom I train spends several hours sitting, wears heels on a regular basis and is quite often found anxiously chasing the kids around. Because all of these activities lead to tightness in the muscles which flex the hips forward (hip flexors, quads, etc), the common result is an increased arch in the back which causes the stomach to protrude (or anterior pelvic tilt)—regardless of bodyfat.

During a sit up or crunch, tightness in these muscles causes the lumbar spine to curl the trunk forward—rather than the hip– due to restricted motion at the hip. Much like bending a credit card will cause it’s surface to wear and eventually snap in half, repetitive crunching (or flexion) motions have been shown to be one of the leading causes of back pain.

With this in mind, it is no wonder that studies have shown that a heightened risk of back pain lingers years after pregnancy (It makes me wonder if these women tried crunches to fix the problem?!).

By contrast, the key to a flat stomach post pregnancy is not stronger abs, but rather the ability to consciously and unconsciously contract and control the abdominal muscles to provide support to the body. Much like a weightbelt, contracting the abdominals signals these muscles to tighten around the spine to provide increased support during daily life and exercises such as squatting and bending over.
In this way, the real life function of the core is to stabilize the trunk by preventing excessive movement. In relation to training for a flat stomach, this means that exercises such as planks and side planks which force us to hold the body still are a key ingredient which is often overlooked.
This type of “stability” based training has added benefit of this type of training is the ability to flatten the stomach on command!

But in order to do so, the key ingredient is learning (or re-learning) the ability to consciously tighten and release the stomach. In our work with clients training for a flat stomach, this comes down to a simple three step process:

Step #1: Breath and brace:

For anyone who has taken pilates, one of the major concepts in this form of exercises is learning proper breathing during abdominal exercise. This type of breathing means taking deep, measured through the nose and allowing the belly to fill with air and expand outward without lifting the chest.

By contrast, inhaling through the mouth causes us to lift the chest and shoulders to initiate each breath without proper motion at the diaphragm. In this upper chest breathing pattern, the diaphragm does not move downward causing increased tension in the muscles of the low back—reinforcing the excess arching of the back described above.

Deep breathing sets the tone for the entire core by allowing the diaphragm to move properly. This is why it is important to practice deep breathing along with your training described below. Once this is accomplished, our next challenge is to integrate deep breathing with conscious abdominal contractions.

Described in the accompanying video, engaging the abdominal brace during abdominal exercises ensures the right muscles are moving at the right times. In our system, this bracing exercise is performed as a warm up drill to remind clients to brace during abdominal exercises. Our general progression begins with five 5 second holds and adds 5-10 seconds per week until brace can be maintained for 30 seconds. We will then move on to the next level.
Deep breathing video link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZJPTQKc9gU

Step #2: Crunchless core training:
According to renowned physical therapist Shirley Sahrmann the primary role of the abdominals is to provide isometric support and limit rotation and extension of the trunk at the lumbar spine. A large percentage of low back problems occur because the abs do not maintain tight control over the waistline.

With that said, my other issue with crunches is that they target primarily the rectus abdominus (or center of the stomach). Because this muscle cannot control rotation, crunches do little to protect the back against pain.

Combine this with daily activities such as hunching forward over a computer and bending over to pick up the kids and we literally spend hours in a crunched position every day! And while the rectus becomes tightened due to excessive use, a major strength imbalance often exists between this muscle and the external oblique’s (side abs)

Much like the traditional six pack, the external also act to prevent excessive arching of the back while also preventing rotation. In most cases, this means our strategy with most clients training for a flat stomach is to ditch crunching motion in favor of movements which strengthen the external oblique’s (side abdominals).
In the above circuit, we combine an exercise which involves movement of the arms to target the external oblique along with two “stability” exercises to train support of the core. Performed along with the brace as a warm up, this strategy is the ideal solution for systematically developing a flat stomach while strengthening the abs for daily life.

In terms of progression, we generally begin with eight reps of the first exercise and add two per week until reaching 12. We will then move to a harder progression. For the plank and side plank, begin by holding for 20 seconds and add 5-10 seconds per week until reaching 45 seconds. Then increase the difficulty as described in the video.
Core circuit video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtE9T2mCvDE

Step #3: Taking it to the street:
After performing core training on the floor, the ultimate goal is to transfer your results to standing. This means integrating the bracing technique in to daily activities which test the ability to remain strong and stable. Combined with our core training, practicing the brace in standing positions is truly the secret to allowing us to maintain a flat stomach at all times during the day.
Standing Brace video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0LlpZcoak2I

Program Guidelines:
- Perform five reps of 5-10 second holds of the abdominal brace exercise as a warm up before your abdominal circuit
- Perform deep breathing while maintaining your brace
- Perform eight reps of each exercise listed in the abdominal circuit.
- Perform these exercises back to back three times
- Add two reps and/or 5-10 seconds per exercise for 3-4 weeks before moving to next progression
- Practice the standing bracing drill several times per day in order to build endurance and control in the abs
- In order to progress this drill, add 5-10 seconds per week until reaching 45 seconds. Then move on to the next progression
Program warm up:
- Floor brace progression

Abdominal Circuit:
Plank w/push up
Plank hold
Side plank hold
Homework:
- Standing brace practice progression

Additional must-reads on pilates vs crunches





Saturday, July 10, 2010

5 Girl Crushes

So many amazing women out there.
Can you imagine the world without women? :)

1. Jessica Alba

2. Angelina Jolie

3. Kate Hudson

4. Anne Hathaway

5. Lindsay Lohan


D-R-A-M-A








Just the other night, I spoke with three people over facebook chat whom I haven't seen for ages. Let's face it, my status was online and it also means luring others to converse with me. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind the "chinwags" every now and then, but not when they ask me questions after questions, some of which are mindless. [Awful] And for some weird reason, all three of them asked if I was getting married or if I had any kids. [The worst]

I know I turn 25 in less than a month, but does it look like I have kids?? Anyway. I put the idea down the loo because I know they weren't trying to be pricks. I think it's a regular occurence that when you see people, they ask how you are, your career, and your "love life." Epic bitch slap in the face. At this point, I remember the cousin pestering me about becoming an old maid, just to add to the agony.

You know, I have good friends. I am surrounded by all the love I need. My family, my cousins (hell yeah even if they're opinionated 99% of the time), and my other informal family slash friends. Why hurry when the right time shall come to you? I don't need to get married yet, I just need that someone. Let's face it, everybody needs a wonder wall :)




.. but maybe, they're right. The waiting game is not-always-fun.


Thursday, July 8, 2010


.. and I thought I always speak my mind. But I guess I'll always be better with written words than spoken.
Motherf....

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

I thought you were different.






... on a less depressing note, I bumped into this guy at church tonight. I wouldn't say I've been eyeing on him, but really, he was a regular church-goer so I couldn't help but notice, and like seriously who wouldn't notice a potential hottie attending the Novenas every week, alone? So anyway we were sitting on our usual spots and by that I mean us being on completely opposite sides of the church. Surprisingly, tonight he came out on "my side" and I wasn't looking while heading out so we "nearly" bumped against each other. WTF.

.. then, he said sorry and smiled.

and then when I had passed him I made the mistake of looking back just as he had turned to look back at me - shit shit shit. Hella embarrassing.


Blogspot challenge Day 13-15

Must catch up on the challenge ^^

Day 13 — A fictional book
Day 14 — A non-fictional book
Day 15 — A fanfic



Day 13 — A fictional book


The story is unique, because its not much of a story, but a wonderful metaphor on life, aspirations, following your dream, conviction and living your dream. Certainly a must-read!














Day 14 — A non-fictional book
Did you know that years ago, there used to be about 80,000 geishas? Now there are only about 1800. This I learned from vh1's Jessica Simpsons The Price of Beauty :) The Japanese world and their culture never fails to fascinate me. and I absoluely loved this book.
Back of the book- "A literary sensation a runaway bestseller, this brilliant debut novel presents with seamless authenticity and exquisite lyricism the true confession of one of Japan's most celebrated geisha.In Memoirs of a Geisha, we enter a world where appearances are paramount: where a girl's virginity is auctioned to the highest bidder, where women are trained to beguile the most powerful men; and where love is scorned as an illusion. It is a unique and triumpant work of fiction-at once romantic, erotics, supspenseful- and completely unforgettable."









Day 15 — A fanfic

The romantic tensions between the characters are just thrilling to read. I remember reading this when I was little and as weird as it may sound, yes, I was young but somehow this book was something I couldn't put down. I remember not having a very good understanding of a lot of the words, but it really was very well written to pass.

Sad to say, I now rarely pick anything to read. I think I just need an extra push and be non-lazy for a day because I would certainly love to sit and enjoy a good book.






Monday, July 5, 2010

25 Fascinating Love Facts

I found this online. But I lost the source again =[



25 Fascinating Love Facts
seamonstershannon:

1. Men who kiss their wives in the morning live five years longer than those who don’t.

2. People are more likely to tilt their heads to the right when kissing instead of the left (65 percent of people go to the right!)

3. When it comes to doing the deed early in the relationship, 78 percent of women would decline an intimate rendezvous if they had not shaved their legs or underarms.

4. Feminist women are more likely than other females to be in a romantic relationship.

5. Two-thirds of people report that they fall in love with someone they’ve known for some time vs. someone that they just met.

6. There’s a reason why office romances occur: The single biggest predictor of love is proximity.

7. Falling in love can induce a calming effect on the body and mind and raises levels of nerve growth factor for about a year, which helps to restore the nervous system and improves the lover’s memory.

8. Love can also exert the same stress on your body as deep fear. You see the same physiological responses — pupil dilation, sweaty palms, and increased heart rate.

9. Brain scans show that people who view photos of a beloved experience an activation of the caudate — the part of the brain involving cravings.

10. The women of the Tiwi tribe in the South Pacific are married at birth.

11. The “Love Detector” service from Korean cell phone operator KTF uses technology that is supposed to analyze voice patterns to see if a lover is speaking honestly and with affection. Users later receive an analysis of the conversation delivered through text message that breaks down the amount of affection, surprise, concentration and honesty of the other speaker.
12. Eleven percent of women have gone online and done research on a person they were dating or were about to meet, versus seven percent of men.

13. Couples’ personalities converge over time to make partners more and more similar.

14. The oldest known love song was written 4,000 years ago and comes from an area between the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers.

15. The tradition of the diamond engagement ring comes from Archduke Maximillian of Austria who, in the 15th century, gave a diamond ring to his fiancée, Mary of Burgundy.

16. Forty-three percent of women prefer their partners never sign “love” to a card unless they are ready for commitment.

17. People who are newly in love produce decreased levels of the hormone serotonin — as low as levels seen in people with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Perhaps that’s why it’s so easy to feel obsessed when you’re smitten.

18. Philadelphia International Airport finished as the No. 1 best airport for making a love connection, according to an online survey.

19. According to mathematical theory, we should date a dozen people before choosing a long-term partner; that provides the best chance that you’ll make a love match.

20. A man’s beard grows fastest when he anticipates sex.

21. Every Valentine’s Day, Verona, the Italian city where Shakespeare’s play Romeo and Juliet took place, receives around 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet.

22. When we get dumped, for a period of time we love the person who rejected us even more, says Dr. Helen Fisher of Rutgers University and author of Why We Love. The brain regions that lit up when we were in a happy union continue to be active.

23. Familiarity breeds comfort and closeness … and romance.

24. One in five long-term love relationships began with one or both partners being involved with others.

25. OK, this one may not surprise you, but we had to share it: Having a romantic relationship makes both genders happier. The stronger the commitment, the greater the happiness!

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After days of contemplating and debating whether or not I was ready to make this entry public, I've decided to go ahead and do so regardless-- everyone needs an outlet of some sort, and I can't bring myself to talk about this with any one person directly so again, I'll resort to my blog, my silent listener.

Someone once told me, that we should let ourselves be our own wonderwall. And just recently, I read about this blog post regarding Trust. So much has happened. What I'm trying to say I guess, is that maybe this whole thing is exhausting me. Bah it's really difficult to put into words what I'm thinking. I'm referring to a certain "something" that came up fairly recently. I'm still debating on whether I regret it or not. It's kinda funny how it still continues to preoccupy my thoughts though. I'm currently in the stage of wondering what God's purpose was for everything that has happened. There has to be a reason...I just don't know what that reason is. Dammit. I sure hate not knowing. Hmm or maybe, I've just been on the social front so much, maybe, I should stick to staying home. But on second thoughts, I only have a month before I probably would have a constant state of restlessness with a whole bunch of workload. Hmm really, I feel fine but why is there a lot going on inside my head? Maybe, it's not love. It's just... dopamine rushing in his primitive brain =]

Flight of ideas. This is how my paragraphs are turning out to be [haha] So if you're wondering what the point of this entry is, there really is no point. I've just decided to write an entry in an attempt to salvage part of my sanity. May I just end this entry by saying, I love my dog. She can really be dumb sometimes and hella annoying, but swear to God, she is a little bit of my everything. She's probably the only one who's seen me at my best and worst state. I should marry her.

Ok now I'm gay.

Sunday, July 4, 2010





See that girl?
Yeah, she’s the one who stuck up for you, the one who stayed up til’ midnight just to talk to you.
She’s the one whose heart flutters when she gets a call or text from you, the one who says 'Good morning' every time she gets the opportunity, and the one who prays she’ll get a chance to say 'Goodnight'.
Boy, she’s the one who fought for you, the one that missed you and loved you.
But by the time you realize that she’s the girl you want, she’ll already be with the guy who figured it out.



- Heart in the clouds